ONLINE DATING HELP FOR MEN

Chatting With Women Online - 3 Crucial Tips to Double Your Success!

2011-01-08T18:26:00.000-08:00

Chatting With Women Online

3 Crucial Tips to Double Your Success!

Chatting With Women Online...

Want to meet hot women quickly and affordably, using the popular Internet for dating?

Want to easily meet women that you are attracted to, AND keep them interested in you?

Do you want to easily impress women with your profile and messages?

Do you want to discover a successful way to dating quality women online?

You can get the women you desire from online sites, once you know how to go about chatting with women online.

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-xo Kat

Headlines For Online Dating - Pathetically Funny

2010-10-10T10:34:00.000-07:00

Headlines For Online Dating

Headlines For Online Dating - Jay Leno versus These Guys?!

Okay, maybe you've been on a matchmaking site already and have taken a look around at women's profiles. If you have, surely you've come across some plain, unique, interesting and boring headlines for online dating.

Sort of following in the footsteps of Dating Profile Of The Day (widget to the right side of this blog) - I wanted to share some of my own headlines, from my own dating online adventures.

So without further ado, I present to you Kat's Collection Of Guys' *REAL* Headlines For Online Dating - Here is the countdown from least worst to most worst, and with commentary to boot! :)

12. Life's a garden. Dig it?

   I don't nhoe.

11. Never play leap frog with a unicorn

     Thank you for the warning, I almost went ahead with my plans.

10. Dust bunnies breed like rabbits

     Oooookay.

9.   The odds are good, but the goods are odd

      Nah, I think just odd.

8.   If I'm on this it's probably laundry day

      How many pairs of underwear do you need to go through everyday??

7.   Male seeks female

      This one definitely needs to have the copyright symbol next to it.

6.   Looking for good-hearted man

      Fair enough, but you do know you're browsing for chicks, right?

5.   I am not certified to remove asbestos

      Shucks, and I was just about to message you.

4. I might not be too cute...but my dog is

      I might not be too cute, but my grandma is.

3.   I'm on a horse

      Please tell me this is some kind of movie reference, 'cause I don't see a picture with a horse, and even if I did...

2.   Happy birthday to the ground

      Please will someone make friends with him. Pleeaaase.

1.   Constructor of temporary erections

Better something than nothing...I guess.

What did you guys think? Would you have ranked it differently? Commented on it differently? Write a comment below.

-xo Kat

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Includes several example headlines that drive women crazy with curiosity... forcing them to email you... Just having these great headlines will boost your success considerably!

Black Singles Sites For African American Dating

2010-09-05T01:46:00.000-07:00

Black Singles Sites

For African American Dating

Black Singles Sites For African American Dating

There are quite a few Black singles sites, and African American dating is just one example of a niche that is covered by the online dating market.

These sites cater to people interested in Black singles, such as other sites cater to single parents, or older folk, or Canadians, or even the wealthy bunch.

Some Black singles sites are free, while others charge a minimal feel to cover the costs of the incorporated site features, such as chat rooms and instant messaging.

An important feature with the sites is attention to safety and security. Dating online sites are committing themselves to protecting your privacy, 'cause the Internet can easily be privy to your personal information.

You don't have to be Black to access dating sites for African Americans, as many accept interracial dating.

When looking to join a site, one should consider the search options, type of communication channels offered, the level of importance of security and privacy, quality profile standards, cost affordability, and quality of user-experience.

Black singles sites carefully screen members and highly encourage members to report inappropriate behavior. Often, online dating tips are provided to enhance members' dating success.

Online dating is more than just a trend. African American dating has a distinct culture that brings people closer together, even on an international scale.

There are various testimonials on how exciting and effective these Black singles sites can be, as there are many success stories. Prior to joining, it would help if you carefully go through the testimonials to see whether or not a particular website is for you. At the end of the day, it will be your preference that matters.

You can go through as many websites as possible to ensure that when you join a particular African American dating website, you get your money’s worth and more importantly, you get to meet your future lifetime partner.

I highly recommend Black Singles which has been around since 2002, and has grown to be one of the most popular dating online sites. With a sophisticated matching system, several search options, instant messenger, chat rooms, message boards, Black dating tips, and more, you are sure to find a match!

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-xo Kat

Your Profile For Dating Online - Is It Art Or Junk?

2010-07-20T12:16:00.000-07:00

Your Profile For Dating Online -

Is It Art Or Junk?

Your Profile For Dating Online

Your profile for dating online is such an important part of the online dating process! Don't take for granted the 'art' of writing an online dating profile.

It's not as simple as slopping together a few words with improper grammar and spelling errors, throwing an old pic up of a barely decipherable human face, and some boring headline.

Women are not just looking at WHAT you are saying, but also HOW you are choosing to say what you want to say. i.e. Are you writing your profile to 'one' woman or are you writing to the 'ladies'?

They are not just looking at WHAT you look like, rather HOW you choose to present yourself through pictures. i.e. Are you goofing off in your photos, or do you look more mature?

Remember, you DO have competition. Don't assume that she will fall for you, if she just gives you a chance to have a conversation, or a meet up in person.

If you don't impress with your profile for dating online right from the get go, you won't have much luck getting out of the gate.

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-xo Kat

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Dating Online For Men Is Fun

2010-06-23T21:21:00.000-07:00

Dating Online For Men Is Fun

Dating Online For Men Is Fun

Just like anything you try for the first time, you have both feelings of excitement and apprehension.

You are looking forward to trying out something that you haven't done before, especially if this is something that you think will give you pleasure.

At the same time, you are hesitant 'cause you don't know what to expect.

When I first started the whole dating online thing, I didn't know what to expect.

I didn't even want to put a picture of myself up 'cause like with swimming you want to dip your toes in to check the temperature of the water first.

I was excited to meet people, in a way that I hadn't before. But also, I was nervous at the stigma that dating online brought.

Because I wasn't taking the concept of going on the Internet to meet guys too seriously, I was able to be more relaxed with my approach.

Had I signed-up to a matchmaking site thinking that I wanted to find a boyfriend, I don't think I would have had the courage to start out.

Usually when you lower your expectations for something that you are anticipating, the outcome is better than what would have been.

How many times have you worked yourself up in the past thinking that you would have a great night, a great trip, or whatever - only to discover that you didn't have as much fun as you had hoped for?

On the contrary, if you don't think about how much fun you will have, and just go with the flow, you usually have a way better time than you could have imagined.

Online dating works the same way.

If you go into it with an open mind, and not with an agenda, not only will you have a better experience - but you will also face less dating online rejection by women.

Usually when you are disappointed with an experience, it's because you had somewhat of an agenda already made-up in your mind.

So hey,

no expectations, no stigma, all fun,

okay?!

-xo Kat

Online dating sites are becoming increasingly popular these days.

Hectic work schedules and an increasing lack of personal human interaction has caused us to become more isolated from one another than even 20 years ago.

How does one find a compatible mate if you seldom have the opportunity to actually meet eligible partners?

If the only real contact you have with other people these days is in the office or at some singles bar on a Friday night, your chances of discovering that "significant other" are desperately small.

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Dating Online First Date - When Do You Ask Her Out?

2010-06-18T02:16:00.000-07:00

Dating Online First Date

When Do You Ask Her Out?

Dating Online First Date - 3 Steps To Asking Her Out

If you've been chatting it up with a woman online, it may be time to ask her out for that anticipatory dating online first date. After all, you're probably not just looking for online pen pals.

However, knowing the RIGHT time for when to ask out a woman from online dating is crucial. Do it too SOON or in the wrong WAY, and you won't get your chance to meet her.

There are NO shortcuts when it comes to asking a woman out from online dating. You must execute every step or you'll be stuck at a dead end.

If it sounds like you only get one chance to ask her out, often times that's all she'll give you!

To meet a woman in person that you met online, follow these 3 steps to get her to agree to a dating online first date:

1. Get Her Attention

This seems obvious, and that's because it is.

You have to start-up a conversation with a woman first. Even if she was the one that messaged you first, she will probably wait for you to ask her out.

Sure there are many women that ask a guy out first. But the women that are truly desirable, they don't need to ask men out. Nor do they want to.

To get these types of women that other men want, you have to get her attention.

This is why you have to have an awesome profile and kill it with your first message, and subsequent ones!

2. Build Trust and Rapport

Women know that there are many creeps online.

It only takes one negative experience with a weirdo, to get their guard up.

In this sense, you have to reassure her that you're just a 'normal' guy.

Coming out and saying you're NOT crazy sort of raises red-flags. It's because she will wonder why you thought to say that.

It's best to avoid stating things in a negative way, and to highlight your strengths instead.

Treat her like you would one of your girl friends. Act like a gentleman and she will know she can trust you. Develop rapport over some good conversation.

Knowing how to attract and chat with women online, will not only have you talking to tons of women, but they will also agree to meet with you!

3. Move Things Offline Smoothly

There's nothing worst than the smell of desperation. And women can smell this from a mile away. No one likes someone that is over-eager.

Take things at a smooth place. Let her believe you're a desirable guy and not just waiting for the FIRST person that comes along and takes an interest in you.

This is why not rushing into asking her out is so important.

She also wants to feel special, and not like she's just some girl on a list. You won't know what is unique about her, unless you chat with her.

You have to give her the impression that there is something about HER, that is making you want to get to know her more. And not that she is a living and breathing pulse.

You have to get a feel for the right time to ask her to go from online to offline. With experience, this will come to you more naturally.

If you rush into asking for a dating online first date, you could fully turn her off.

Take it easy. If she's interested in meeting you, she won't disappear!

Be confident in your online dating approach to attract the hottest women!

If you follow these 3 steps for when to ask women for a dating online first date, you will be in a MUCH better position to get them to say YES to meeting you.

After all, isn't the whole excitement about online dating, the chance to meet NEW and COOL women that you normally wouldn't get to meet in your day-to-day?

Get out there!

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-xo Kat

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Dating Profile For Men - Do Not Lie!

2010-05-29T00:36:00.001-07:00

Dating Profile For Men -

Do Not Lie!

Dating Profile For Men

It is so important when creating a dating profile for Internet Matchmaking Sites that you do not fib. What's the point?

Don't think you can wine and dine the woman you are taking out, and that she won't notice that you are actually 5 years older, 4 inches shorter, and 10 pounds bigger than your profile stated!

Women do it too, don't get me wrong, usually with their weight.

How would you feel if you met someone whose pictures were a little deceiving, or they even s-t-r-e-t-c-h-e-d the truth just a little?

Would you 'fall' for her in person, ignoring the fact that she held back something of importance? Or would you feel sort of deceived, and wonder what else she was not being truthful about?

You see, you lose more than you gain when you aren't honest with someone from the get go.

Trust is very important to women, and if you start off with a little lie or lie by omission, they will wonder what else you have up your sleeve.

Not to mention, people like confidence and when you fib, you show that you're not comfortable enough with who you are.

Of course, it depends on how 'seriously' you are taking the whole online dating experience.

If you're looking for something more 'causal', then I guess you won't be as disappointed when you don't get what you want, compared to if you were taking dating online more seriously.

But then again, you don't want to meet someone that you have interest in, only to find out that had you been honest with her in the first place, she would have given you a shot!

Least of all be called a jerk!

I was chatting it up with one guy that was actually 4 years older than his stated age.

But what bothered me more is that he never brought it up!

I only knew that he was older than what he stated 'cause I recognized him from the same site a couple of years earlier!

Let's just say he was embarrassed when I called him on it, and I was turned off that he wasn't confident enough to be straight-up.

I asked him why he went about online dating that way and he said exactly what I thought - he was trying to appeal to younger women.

I totally understand, but we didn't end up going through with our date. No, thanks.

Another guy I went on a date with ended up being shorter than the height stated in his profile - we're talking like 3 inches! I mean I was literally towering over him in heels. Sheesh!

The moral of the story is:

1) If you're not so honest in your profile, at least let her know the 'real' truth soon into the conversation - Before you meet in person.

2) Be opened minded in your search criteria - You never know who you could meet.

I came across an article from Lifestyle on Yahoo called How Much Should You Fudge Your Online Dating Profile?

A study found that 8 or 9 out of 10 people lie in their profile for dating online!

As I mentioned, men exaggerate their height and women under-report their weight.

It's supposedly subtle differences that you wouldn't notice in-person.

But heck, I notice!

What do you think? Is it okay to lie on your profile for dating online? What is acceptable? What isn't?

-xo Kat

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Sample Dating Profiles To Get Women's Attention Online

2010-05-19T12:50:00.000-07:00

Sample Dating Profiles -
To Get Women's Attention Online

Sample Dating Profiles

I write a lot about online dating profiles. It kind of reminds me of how you would want that perfect resume to impress those employers. You want that perfect dating online profile to impress all those women.

The profile is a very important part of the online dating process, whether you are looking for women to message you first, or you want them to reply back to your messages.

Not to mention the online matchmaking sites won't let you proceed until you have your profile up and running, and they usually require a minimum amount of sentences on your profile.

If you're coming up blank on what to write on your first profile for online dating, or maybe you feel you need to change it up for better results with women - it pays to take a look at sample dating profiles.

The more you're looking to attract beautiful and desirable women online, the more you have to step it up on creating a great profile.

Focus on creating a perfect profile and interesting emails to entice women online.

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You may think you don't need any kind of online dating program, but honestly if you make a mistake with any one woman, it will be next to impossible to try and fix it. This is why it's best to go into online dating with a PLAN! :)

Good luck and have fun! :)

-xo Kat

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Dating Online Rejection From Women

2010-05-11T23:42:00.000-07:00

Dating Online Rejection From Women

I don't know about you guys, but if you're anything like me...rejection just plain sucks!

Getting rejected by women when online dating kind of gets to your ego, 'cause it's not like they even REALLY know who you are.

They don't know how you are around your family, friends, colleagues, neighbors, etc.

And you KNOW this, but you can't help but let the sting get to your ego.

Sound familiar?

Then dealing with rejection from women when online dating has you hold back, when you shouldn't even let it get to you!

I was recently messaging back and forth with some guy online.

Things were going well with conversation, so I decided to add him to my Facebook.

I don't like to add people from online dating onto Facebook, and that is just my own personal choice.

So with this one guy, I guess I was feeling risque, lol, by adding him.

As I checked out his profile on there, I noticed that I wasn't as interested as I thought I would be.

I recognized a girl that I saw on the online dating site we both use (yes, I sometimes check out women's profiles, out of curiousity!), and was thinking, Woah! If he added her, then we're definitely not a match. Her personality and mine are miles apart.

Not to mention, I wasn't into his style of conversation with others. As I checked out his 'Wall', I wasn't too impressed with how he talks 'Cool'. Not my thing.

Sooo, because I realized I wouldn't be interested in him, I decided to take him off as a Facebook 'friend'.

I didn't get a chance to message him about it, before he sent me a message saying he noticed. I then go to send a message to explain and found out he had blocked me.

Well, to make a bit longer of a story shorter - let's just say, this guy took the meaning 'crazy' to a whole new level. ;)

He just could NOT handle the rejection.

Basically, he came up with a really LOW type of insult. He kept messaging me insults, and even when I blocked him, he created a new account online JUST so he could bash me! How I know this is that on his profile he put that he's JUST needing to get a hold of 'this one girl' no matter what!

And the weird part about it is that he was trying to add me back on as a 'friend'. How does somebody put you down, and still want to know you? Weird.

Anyways, he finally went away.

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-xo Kat

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Flirt Over Text - Creating Attraction With Women

2010-05-08T20:11:00.000-07:00

Flirt Over Text -

Creating Attraction With Women

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Flirt Over Text - Creating Attraction With Women

Texting has become a huge way for people to connect.

You can go about your errands or activities without being tied down to the phone.

It allows for multi-tasking, by allowing you to send and receive messages when, and if you want to.

If you can flirt over text, you will be able to create attraction with women.

How you know you are sending out the 'right' texts to women is when it comes naturally to you.

Here are 4 ways in which you know that you have become naturally good at flirting over text:

1. You don't have to think about it too much, so you are creating attraction with women with much less effort and risk.

2. You discover what comments women love to hear and are able to apply these comments texting, online, and in person.

3. You save yourself time on knowing how to flirt over text, 'cause you don't twist your brain figuring out the right words to say.

4. You have more women interested in you 'cause other guys don't really know how to flirt over text.

Texting is a lot more than just being able to send and receive a message - It's about creating attraction with women.

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Often, you will text someone before you meet them in person, as well as after.

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-xo Kat

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Be Her Best Lover Ever

2010-05-02T02:26:00.000-07:00

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Online Profile for Dating

2010-05-01T14:30:00.000-07:00

Online Profile For Dating

Online Profile For Dating

If you want to meet more women online, you will want to concentrate on your online profile for dating!

A well-written profile is a huge part of how to successfully attract women online - Don't take this part of the online dating process for granted.

Otherwise, your competition will scoop up that girl you really want!

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-xo Kat

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I truly, truly, enjoyed this book. It is very informative, and is focused on helping men.

Although I'm not what you call a 'loser' and do get some dates occasionally, I got lots of great tips from the book.

In addition, it's so, so funny that I kept a smile the whole way throughout.

Many of the subjects that the author touches upon appear to be obvious, but seeing them written the way they are really hits home.

I can honestly say, this book will definitely help many men who are not losers.

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Online Dating Message - Impress Her!

2010-04-30T01:35:00.000-07:00

Online Dating Message -

Impress Her!

Online Dating Message - Impress Her!

Because guys spend their time looking at women's pictures online, it's kind of obvious that you will decide to fire off an online dating message to a woman based on her looks.

It's also true that the more attractive a woman is, the more messages she gets which also means the more competition you have.

You have to impress her instantly with your online dating message.

So pay attention before you fire your first message off, 'cause if you don't hear from her - sending off that second message doesn't look too great.

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-xo Kat

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- Tips for meeting for the first time and ways to keep them coming back for more (pg. 68)

- Stay safe! Weed out the scammers. We will show you how to know the scammers real men or women that you might actually like to meet. (pg. 76)

- The top 12 dating safety tips that everyone should know but doesn't. (pg. 86)

- The Top Online Dating Red Flags. How to watch out for them and how to avoid sending them (pg. 77)

- How to have your profile written for you (pg. 49)

- Have a perfect online photo, even if you don't own a camera. (pg. 55)

- All of this plus tons of examples and step by step instructions. It's like having your own personal dating coach.

Profile for Dating Online - It IS Important!

2010-04-21T09:00:00.000-07:00

Profile for Dating Online - It IS Important!

Profile For Dating Online - It IS Important!

Hey guys,

Your profile for dating online is pretty standard across all matchmaking sites.

You definitely don't want to take this part of the online dating experience lightly.

Think what matters most are your pics?

Think again.

You may focus on what women look like, before considering if you should contact them. However, women look beyond the pictures.

They are interested in WHO you are as a person, and this is conveyed in your profile, or lack thereof.

Don't lose out on an opportunity to have all those women contact you, simply because you chose not to spend those extra few minutes refining your profile.

Even worst, think a woman will respond back simply 'cause of what you wrote in that first message to her? Nope, she will take your profile into consideration too!

Don't underestimate the power of a good profile for dating online.

Go Here If You Want A Killer Profile!

-xo Kat

Stop dating the wrong people and get the right results.

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Whether new to online dating or whether you've dabbled in disaster, this book tells you where to look, what to look for, how to create an irresistible profile, how to respond, what to say and what to avoid.

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Learn to be a stimulating conversationalist in 4 words or less and use sample Fact-finding, Character-telling, Baggage-revealing, Red-flag and Stop-sign Questions.

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How To Online Date Desirable Women

2010-04-17T01:16:00.000-07:00

How To Online Date Desirable Women

Click Here For 7 Days To Online Dating Success!

How To Online Date Desirable Women

Hey guys,

My friend Tyler runs a really sweet program called 7 Days To Online Dating Success: Create An Irresistible Profile, Attract The Women You Desire And Keep Them! - Everything A Man Needs To Know About Attracting Women Online, And Creating Attraction In The Real World.

It literally teaches you everything you would need to know about how to online date desirable women! I really had to share this with you all.

It's a proven system created to bring you success with women on social networking i.e. Facebook and matchmaking dating i.e. Plenty of Fish sites. It's NOT an e-book!

This is the closest you can get to live coaching without having to dish out thousands of dollars!

It is a VERY comprehensive dating online course about becoming successful with exceptional women in the easiest and shortest amount of time, from meeting women online - to success with women in the 'real' world.

7 Days To Online Dating Success is packed with handouts, videos, and audio download options, (so you can listen to it on the go or wherever) on how to meet sexy and quality women.

Each day there are videos, including STEP-BY-STEP handouts and proven templates, so you don't have to guess anymore.

Wouldn't it be such a relief to finally do what works for women online, so you can satisfy YOUR love life?

What's crazy is that Tyler Tray even GUARANTEES that you will have 7 or more dates in the SAME month you get this program!

What?!

I know. I hardly believed it myself. After looking into it, I see that this guy KNOWS what he is talking about!

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And that's what you want!

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Let me know if this system helped YOU figure out how to online date desirable women!

-xo Kat

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Ashley Cheating Madison Review

2010-04-17T00:47:00.000-07:00

Ashley Cheating Madison Review

If you haven't already heard of Ashley 'Cheating' Madison, she is not necessarily your girl next door type. She is becoming very popular to men and even women...well, some women anyway.

She's extremely recognizable and very trusted. She is definitely unique. She is married and definitely looking. And so is everyone else that is using her.

You see, Ashley Madison is not just one woman - it is an online dating service targeting married people that want an affair with other married folks. A married dating service for attached men and woman looking to have an extra-marital affair, boasting over 5 million worldwide users. Heck, you can even be single to join.

Ashley Madison has been featured on Oprah, Larry King, 20/20, Ellen, Dr. Phil and Howard Stern. Despite advertising for the site being banned from the Super Bowl and Toronto streetcars, it doesn't fail to get members to its site.

With the slogan 'Life is Short, Have an Affair', it's as if it guilt's you into seeking fulfillment in an area of your life that you seemingly have no control over. Whether you are a man looking for a married woman or for a woman that wants a sugar daddy, the site 'guarantees' an affair.

Never mind selecting long walks on the beach, or meeting up for coffee as interests, rather the site has 'skinny dipping' and a 'secret love nest' as the least risque interest choices on the site.

Though online dating sites can't really guarantee an online affair, the service is expanding worldwide. In fact, the Ashley Madison CEO's goal is to have 100,000,000 million members.

What causes people to seek out an affair? What causes people to get involved with those already attached?

Whenever a man (as this is a blog for men) seeks the excitement of sex outside his own marriage, cheating becomes part of that scenery. If you get caught up in 'fantasy-land' and get out of touch with the 'real-world', you inevitably choose to delve into risky business.

Whatever happened to good old-fashioned marital values? Communication is something that can be learned. Passion can be re-built.

How about looking into your wife's eyes and asking her, "How can we build our passion back up?" Is this too boring nowadays?

I'm not married, but I do hope I would find someone that would naturally turn to me for his sexual desires and his frustrations. I would want someone that could tell me everything about what he is thinking and feeling, so I could try and provide for him.

Often times cheating isn't about the sex, and this is something that I hope my partner would be willing to share with me also. I believe in prevention over treatment.

I know as a single woman, I would never go for a man that was attached. I wouldn't respect a man that would be willing to cheat on his partner. He would just do the same thing to me. My self-esteem is high enough that I don't need to infiltrate on a woman's relationship with her man. Let alone if there are children involved.

There are enough single people out there. I say work on your marriage, or get out.

Maybe I'm just old-fashioned.

Check out the article Cheatin' Hearts Find Online Escape - City Residents Seek Out Dating Site For Married People for more on Ashley Madison.

As always, I'd love to know what you think!

-xo Kat

Marriage works only when each spouse takes the time to consider the other's needs and strives to meet them.

In His Needs, Her Needs: Building An Affair-Proof Marriage, Willard Harley identifies the ten most vital needs of men and women and shows husbands and wives how to satisfy those needs in their spouses.

He provides guidance for becoming irresistible to your spouse and for loving more creatively and sensitively, thereby eliminating the problems that often lead to extramarital affairs.

The revised anniversary edition is a celebration of how the book has helped thousands of couples revitalize their marriages during the last fifteen years.

This best-seller identifies the causes of marital difficulties and instructs couples on how to prevent them, guiding them to build a relationship that sustains romance and increases intimacy.

With today's soaring divorce rate and prevalence of affairs, Harley's insights are needed more than ever before.

Dating Online Book For Men - A Must Have!

2010-04-15T00:38:00.000-07:00

Dating Online Book For Men -
A Must Have!

Editorial Review:

The Black Book of On-line Dating For Men:

Your Secret Weapon For Success

Imagine having a step-by-step guide to online dating.

Imagine approaching the most beautiful women and always knowing what to say.

Imagine having a profile that makes women contact you.

Loaded with almost 400 pages of in-depth explanations and walk-throughs, The Black Book of On-line Dating covers every aspect of dating online for men and provides you with an easy to follow blueprint for achieving success time and time again.

This dating online book for men covers the psychology of on-line interaction and includes over a dozen real live interactions, broken down and analyzed step-by-step for you to understand and master the The Winning Strategy.

Your online dating will never be the same again.

The Black Book of Online Dating for Men covers it all!

A comprehensive step-by-step dating online book for men that teaches you not just what to say to women and how best to say it, but also WHY.

It includes intense explanations and examples of how to online date.

It allows you to master the art of communication, so you can directly understand what it takes to be successful with women on online dating.

If there was a book out there that would get you success with the ladies online - this is it!

Highly Recommended!

-xo Kat

*Click on the picture for more info.!

Match Maker Sites - More Than Meets The Eye!

2010-04-14T22:16:00.000-07:00

Match Maker Sites -

More Than Meets The Eye!

A friend forwarded an article to me that was recently published pertaining to people 'crashing' matchmaker sites. On general dating sites, it happens all the time where people tend to put their best foot forward and not really represent the 'real' them.

I went on dates with guys that were quite shorter than their 'stated' height, and I even discounted my added heel height.

Women supposedly tend to not be so truthful about their weight.

However, when it comes to niche matchmaking sites where all the members are supposed to own up to the same criteria, it's becoming common that 'crashers' are joining.

For instance, the Jewish dating site JDate is an online Jewish match maker for well, you guessed it, Jewish folks.

There are people that have signed up to that site that aren't even Jewish, yet the assumption would be that they are Jewish.

You would think a service like Single Parents Mingle, which is a single parent dating website, would simply have members sign-up that were indeed - parents.

However, there are people that sign-up on a single parent dating website that don't even have children. Instead, they post pictures of themselves up with their nieces and nephews, for instance.

Even a site targeting affluent men and the ladies looking for that lifestyle, such as the matchmaking site Sugardaddie, a dating site for rich members - doesn't mean that all the men on there are made of dough.

So what is the motive for people to 'pretend' to be someone they're not?

It could be that they think the criteria is not all that important to others, or they are selfish and want what works for them.

Regardless of the reason, 'faking it' can only work for so long.

I always think integrity is best. Besides, what if you set off on the 'wrong foot' and find that you are really into a woman, only to have her want nothing to do with you once she finds out the truth - which as the examples in the article show - is only a matter of time.

Check out the article Niche Matchmaking Sites Attract Date 'Crashers'

Let me know what you think. Is it fine to join any matchmaking site, or should you fit the specific criteria?

Regards,

-xo Kat

Blind dates haven’t worked. Neither has the internet, or set-ups by mom or friends. Now what? How about something tried and true: the professional matchmaker!

Matchmakers are back and better than ever—and this guide, Make Me a Match: The 21st Century Guide to Finding and Using a Matchmaker, from the Matchmaking Institute, explains everything you need to know to choose and use one.

Find out all about the process, how to make the most of it, and exactly how he or she will make you a match.

As you read the success stories with their “happily ever afters,” you’ll realize that matchmaking is an intelligent, practical way to go about dating today.

In addition, there’s a list of matchmakers recommended by the Institute as well as smart dating and relationship advice from the professionals.

Shocking Online Dating Stats!

2010-04-13T16:28:00.000-07:00

Shocking Online Dating Stats!

In case you missed the online dating statistics in a previous post Dating Online and Sex...

These stats for dating online simply shocked me in a few areas!

Ever Gotten A Date Online?

"We use the Internet for a lot of things...paying the bills, reading the news, keeping in touch with old friends, but a growing trend is finding your mate online. More people than ever are utilizing dating services and many are finding success. You have seen the commercials, now it's time to read the stats on this booming trend."

Let me know your thoughts!

-xo Kat

Make Her Chase You: The Guide To Attracting Girls Who Are "Out Of Your League" Even If You're Not Rich Or Handsome answers questions that have eluded men forever.

What really attracts women? How do you ask for her phone number without getting rejected? Which first dates really work, and which are a one way ticket to rejection? What exactly is the friend zone, and how can you get out of it?

Tynan, also known as Herbal, is one of the most well known pickup artists in the world, made famous by the New York Times Bestseller, The Game.

Taught by the greatest pickup artists in the world, including Mystery from The Pick Up Artist on VH1, Tynan has developed his own style which focuses on authenticity, building relationships, and integrating pickup with normal life.

Dating Online Advice For Men - Who Want To Date More Women...Review

2010-04-11T21:43:00.000-07:00

Dating Online Advice for Men

Editorial Review:

Dating Online Advice for Men Who Want to Date

More Women Then They Can Handle

Who else wants to learn how to date some of the world's most beautiful women?

Did you know that most of the women that you think would never date or have sex with YOU, are often times lonely (yes, even the most gorgeous ones), and actually would if you knew what to say to them

Discover how to get any woman you want (and maybe even a few of her friends)!

And much, much more!

Dating Online Advice for Men Who Want to Date More Women Then They Can Handle helps you discover not just the effective ways to chat it up with women online, but also the popular dating sites where women go.

This book uses a no-holds-barred approach to get you approaching women you think are out of your league.

It encourages you to get out of your comfort zone, by taking away your assumptions, and to just get out there and meet women online.

This guide will definitely boost your confidence when it comes to online dating!

Highly Recommended!

-xo Kat

*Click on the picture below to learn more!

Dating Online and Sex

2010-04-08T15:34:00.000-07:00

Dating Online and Sex

So I get a second message from a guy I sort of kept my eye on, though it took him a little longer than I expected for him to get back to me. I'd say it was about a week between his first and second message to me.

I was surprised to hear from him 'cause it's not like I really had been thinking about him. I was also pleasantly surprised 'cause of yet another nice picture of himself that he sent to me. ;)

He basically states that he's 'surprised' at how many women on the site were just looking for sex! I mean he wrote it in a way that sounded like he's not at all that impressed to get 'offers'. (I'm thinking other guys would KILL to not be able to complain about this, heh, heh.)

Don't think I'm naive to think some guys wouldn't be 'playing it up'. I know better. ;) Let's just assume that it wasn't his thing. I actually find it appealing when a guy expresses his interest in wanting to meet women for more than the physical pleasures! Perhaps I'm a 'typical' woman. ;)

Naturally I was curious by what he meant and told him that I was also surprised that a lot of women seemed to be looking for no strings action on the site. I mean he's an attractive guy. He doesn't post his pictures up, instead gives them privately.

Anyways we messaged back and forth and he said how he recently 'caved in' to a woman that was a master at the art of seduction. Curious me asked for details and oh boy, did I ever get them!

Let's just say that a first date dinner with someone he met online led to him going back to her place and getting attacked. I use the word 'attacked' 'cause he wasn't sounding like a willing recipient, rather someone that was giving in to a woman wanting and initiating sex!

Anyways, our banter was kind of fun, but it got me thinking.

How many of the guys that I went on dates with were just as 'attacked'? Is online dating and first date sex more common than I thought? Is it more women than men expecting - initiating - attacking - seeking out sex with someone they JUST met through online dating?!

Then it's almost like a call for some statistics went out to the Gods 'cause what do I find...

A survey regarding some online dating survey stats and boy was I sort of taken aback.

You see, I didn't think that online dating and first date sex was any more prevalent than first date sex where two people met the traditional way.

I was shocked to find out that 1 in 3 women who meet men online have SEX on the FIRST encounter!

It just seemed so high. Can the same be said that 1 out of 3 women who meet men OFFline have a one-night stand? Or is it something about the world of the Internet that is causing people to be more promiscuous?

My assumption would be that women would be more likely to have sex on the first encounter with a guy they met in the bar or at a party or something like that - rather than with a guy they met online.

Usually when a woman meets a guy out when she's partying, she's having some drinks to help her relax, her friends are helping her feel confident, she's getting to know the guy, there's body language and all that good jazz that helps her feel the guy out.

But before an online dating first date there was what?? Emails, Messages, Maybe the phone. And unless the first date had drinks involved or she was just naturally comfortable - the connection would be much slower than that which you would create at a party.

Or would it?

These survey results surprised me. Not only is sex happening using online dating, but it sounds like many women are into having sex with a man they just met - online!

4 out of 5 women do NOT use protection surveys reveal!

And if this is the case, which I'm hoping this survey where I'm getting this data from is some kind of hoax, it tells you just how far someone is willing to go with a 'stranger'. And stupidly at that to risk their own health (guys too!).

Then I got wondering if every 3rd guy I date has had online dating first date sex. I've never been good at math. But if it takes that THIRD girl to get sex on the first encounter then isn't that saying it takes every THIRD guy as well?!

And if 4 out of 5 encounters were between people possibly spreading around STD's, doesn't that mean that 80% of the guys I date from online perhaps have an STD?!

Ever Gotten A Date Online? - Survey Stats

Somebody please enlighten me....

-xo Kat

Guys, let's face it. Chicks are confusing.

Not only that, they really don't want you to know what's up with them and they certainly don't want you to figure them out. This can lead to a lot of frustration.

But, if you're looking for answers, look no farther. Dag Albright has the answers in Chicks: A User's Guide to Dating, Love and Sex.

This book will not only tell you how to avoid doing something wrong when meeting and dating women, but will also tell you how to do it right.

Rejection isn't fun for anyone and knowing how to avoid it from the get-go is the key to dating well.

If you are looking to become a pro at dating, this book can definitely help.

Packed with insight and information about women, it will teach even the novice what works with women and how to apply it to everyday life.

It will get you out of the "friend zone" and into the dating zone.

Guys don't have to be millionaires or drive fancy sports cars in order to attract women.

But they do need the knowledge of what really works and what doesn't. This book does just that.

Dating is fun and should be seen as such.

This book teaches you how to take it all less seriously and enjoy the process of looking for "The One."

If you want to learn more, it can put you on the path to a better dating life.

Dating Online First Date

2010-03-30T11:29:00.000-07:00

Dating Online First Date

Dating Online First Date

I find it kind of amusing when guys call a dating online first date a "meeting".

It sounds more business when it's called a "meeting". Essentially, a date simply means getting to know someone new! As long as you think of it that way, no pressure!

Perhaps calling the dating online first date a "meeting" eases any pressure, or takes off some expectations. The funny thing is it's mainly guys that call it that! Ha. Women prefer dates. I know I do.

Regardless if you call it a date or a meeting, you do want to get a sense of what the woman is "looking for" before you meet her in person.

You should both be clear about your intentions before you meet up, so that way you avoid any disappointment.

Relax and have fun!

-xo Kat

Did you finally score a date with that girl you've been eying for weeks?

Are you looking for creative and unique date ideas that won't break the bank and are sure to impress your potential significant other?

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This collection of great ideas will not only enhance your first date experience, but also continue to assist you by providing ideas sure to add spontaneity and excitement into your budding relationship.

Attract Women Online With These Tips!

2010-03-27T01:44:00.000-07:00

Attract Women Online With These Tips!

Online dating is definitely not as stigmatic as it once was.

Not only that, there are TONS of women looking for men online, and not just geeky women either. If you haven't started looking into how to attract women online yet, now is the best time to go online dating for women!

Spring is here, people want to get there spring cleaning done. They want a change - out with the old and in with the new. If you are new to online dating, there is a lot to know. You often won't get that second chance to make that all important first impression, so be as prepared as you can and learn how to attract women online - use it to your advantage.

If you have been online dating already and feel as though you are going in circles, and need better results with women - don't give up! Refresh your energy, gain your positive spirits back, and don't feel like a fool all because you think you could use some online dating help for men. So what if you are seeking advice, the women don't have to know!

There are a ton of matchmaking sites out there, but you will want to go where the women go. The more women that are signed-up on the site you are on, the more choices you will have. The more choices you have, the better the chance you will find your match, regardless of what you are looking for. If you're looking for quality women then check out the best online dating sites for men.

It is important that your profile stands out to women. Don't take this for granted. What you have in there says A LOT about you - put some time and effort into this. Also, if you have an appealing profile and great pictures - you will stand out from your competition. Not to mention, women will be the ones to message YOU first which is always cool.

Besides your profile and pictures, your online dating first message to a woman can either make it or break it with her. It will either make her ignore you or write you back. The more women you have replying to your messages, the more conversations you can have going. Conversations lead into opportunities to meet women in person - which is what you're aiming for, right?! Honestly, pay attention to WHAT you are saying and HOW you are saying it in your profile and emails.

Remember, women want to feel special. They don't want to feel like just another number. Obviously, they know you're trying to chat up women left, right and center. The key is to make the woman you are trying to attract feel as if she's important. Sure this takes up more of your time and effort. But it leads to greater success to get what you want from the woman you are really interested in.

The more prepared you are in the online dating arena, the better your results with women. Attract women online effectively which will practically guarantee that more women will notice you and be interested in you!

Looking for women online is easy, once you know what you are doing right.

Go here for online dating success in just 7 days!

-xo Kat

The Chess Player's Guide to Meeting Beautiful Women Online is the definitive guide for meeting beautiful women online. Tested and perfected by pickup artists from around the world.

An Online Dating First Meeting...

2010-03-25T13:26:00.000-07:00

An Online Dating First Meeting...

An Online Dating First Meeting...

So there I am out with a girlfriend downtown the other night when this guy walks up to us. My online dating first meeting with this particular fellow goes like this...

I recognized him right away, as I'm pretty good with faces. The thing is I'm not quick to process how I know him or where I know him from.

Of course my thoughts are processing that information all in a nanosecond, at the same time he says hi. He has a questioning and inquisitive look on him, and as soon as he said my name - I knew who he was.

He remembered my online name and called me by that. I don't like to give out my real name too much.

I laughed embarrassingly (not so much 'cause I was online dating, but that he saw me in the 'real world' accidentally!), and looked at my girl friend. He caught me off guard, of course.

I then said, "Oh ya, You're _____". My mind went blank! Ha ha. I did recognize him from the online dating site we're both from, but of course I couldn't remember his name.

Not a second later, he walked off 'cause he was interrupted.

A week earlier, he had messaged me a couple of times. I responded 'cause he sends the sweetest messages. I'm not sure if he recognized me from the site from a couple of years back - but he was sweet then too.

He's just not my type. I wish him every success with finding someone suitable, since he's so nice. I do like nice guys!

I felt a little bad when he walked away, but I did notice he was in the middle of doing something. I wasn't sure if it's 'cause I laughed. But, I do know that he could tell I was surprised, yet nice.

My friend and I ended up walking by him again, randomly. I could tell he was trying to get my attention, and he had his cell in his hand sort of motioning with it. I just acted like I didn't see him. I didn't want to give him the impression I was interested when I wasn't.

He ended up messaging me again on the site. He was still as sweet as ever, luckily. It means he didn't take me for some snob, which wasn't my intention at all!

I was surprised he recognized me in person. I thought it was cool though. If I were interested in him, wouldn't that have been great to have seen him. Heck, I probably would have even invited him to join me and my girlfriend! Why not? Spontaneity can be fun.

It just goes to show an online dating first meeting can be either random or planned.

-xo Kat

In this Internet dating primer, A Commonsense Guide To Successful Internet Dating, a self-proclaimed online serial dater demystifies fishing in the electronic sea.

Katz, founder of the world's first Internet dating consultant firm, E-Cyrano, assures the uninitiated that Internet dating is the "wave of the present," with over 40 percent of all single adults in America searching for love online.

Although Katz admits he's never sustained a relationship for more than seven months, he entertainingly reviews how to present one's self on the Web and prepare for every eventuality-from deciding how long to wait before meeting in person to who should pick up the check.

Much of his advice is common sense-write a lively introductory essay, be selective in whom you respond to-but, as Katz notes, common sense often goes the way of the Dodo when it comes to dating.

Dating Online Profiles That Work!

2010-03-23T17:25:00.000-07:00

Dating Online Profiles That Work!

Dating Online Profiles That Work!

Don't take for granted the importance of spending some time crafting something interesting for your dating online profile.

Your profile is more important than you might think to help you stand out to the ladies.

Don't underestimate the value in creating a great profile, regardless of who messages who first.

Take a look at other men's profiles to get a feel for different styles. I have done this by looking at different women's profiles. I like to write my own profile first before comparing it to the others', so that way I feel good knowing that it was 100% mine to begin with. ;)

Get a feel for what you like and don't like when you view other guys' profiles. Chances are many women will feel the same way as you.

Your online dating profile is like your billboard into who you are and whether someone should stop by to take another look. The more people that stop by, the better chance you have of finding a great match.

Dating online profiles that work best combine content, personality, confidence and a sense of humor.

So make your online dating profile your BEST online dating profile!

-xo Kat

Whether you're looking for love or a special friendship, online dating is a simple yet effective way to improve your social life. It can also be a lot of fun.

By making a decision to try it, you may have already opened a door to a whole new world of exciting possibilities. This practical step-by-step guide will teach you everything you need to know about online dating, so that you can do it safely and enjoyably.

Everyone's Guide To Online Dating: How to find love and friendship on the Internet is the first online dating guide written specifically for UK daters. All the advice inside is based on many hundreds of actual case studies as well as in-depth industry knowledge and personal experience.

Whether you're an Internet veteran or just starting out, this book will help you on your way to finding love online.

Avoid THIS Type Of Online Dating First Message!

2010-03-18T11:56:00.000-07:00

Avoid THIS Type Of Online Dating First Message

Avoid THIS Type of Online Dating First Message!

Do you feel frustrated when you send off messages to women and they don't get back to you? Do you feel even worst when they delete your first message?

You will want to avoid the type of online dating first message that will not work for the ladies, and will make you more frustrated to boot.

It can be tough on the ego when all you feel is rejection after rejection of your messages. You assume that she isn't attracted to you, or you're just not her type in some way.

But does it occur to you that it is the WAY you approached her to begin with that ultimately turned her off?

Yes, you could be attractive, charming, have a great write-up, many interests...and still wonder why you aren't drawing the women in.

Either you think that it is HER problem that she's not replying back to your message, or you clued in that perhaps it is your message to her that isn't coming across so well.

Maybe you know that your approach isn't quite working, but you're not quite sure what to do about it. Especially, when you sometimes get responses.

But how does it feel to come across a woman that you are REALLY interested in and you lose out again? Perhaps it's time to figure out what it is that isn't working so effectively to get women to reply back.

You just know that they would take a liking to you, if the women would just give you a CHANCE. Ah-hah, my friend, you have to EARN this. ;) Simply the act of sending her a message is NOT good enough. It may be for YOU when a woman sends you a first message. You may not care so much what is in the message, but the fact that she wrote you FIRST is what matters. Women work differently (surprise, surprise ;). A woman won't give you WHAT you want, until you give her what it is she NEEDS.

She wants to feel that you NOTICED her DIFFERENTLY than you did the other women online....

The way you start out is by sending her an online dating first message that WORKS, and is guaranteed to increase your reply-backs!

LEARN the BEST way to get a woman's attention online!

-xo Kat

Online dating represents an amazing new way to meet people, but it requires technology skills in addition to social skills.

Truth, Lies, and Online Dating shows you how you can effectively use your PC, digital camera, word processor and other PC-based tools to effectively market yourself and communicate who you are -- and who you are looking for.

It teaches the mechanics of online dating services and shows you how to put each service's search engines to work to find the best dates. Learn how you can try services first without having to subscribe, and how to find dating sources that match your lifestyle.

Finally, you'll explores the darker side of online dating, learning how to spot people who may not be telling the truth about themselves and even using background check services to verify the identity of the person you are interested in.

Your First Online Dating Message To A Woman

2010-03-18T03:56:00.000-07:00

Your First Online Dating Message To A Woman

Hey guys,

Think about that first online dating message you send to a woman online, not after you've already sent it - but BEFORE you've hit that send button! ;)

I think you know that I do the online dating matchmaking site thing myself. If you didn't know this, now you do. ;) How else would I be able to help you out so well like I do...heh, heh. :) I find it fun and intriguing to connect with men online on a matchmaking site.

I always find it both exciting and interesting when I receive new messages in my in-box. It's exciting because someone took notice of me, but it's also interesting 'cause I'm wondering what it was about me (my pictures or profile or both) that encouraged the guy enough to write.

A peculiar email I received the other day was something that caught me off guard, and reminded me why I am here to help you with Online Dating Help For Men Blog.

You see, what first started off as a seemingly "normal" message turned into a dreadful interaction. Sometimes you can make a decent first impression, but can you sustain it?

So, this guy compliments me on my hair and I thought that was nice, so I sent him a quick message back just to thank him. The reason it was a quick message was because I wasn't interested in him (based on his profile and the one pic). If I had been interested, I would have asked him a question.

He then sends me a second message saying that....hmm, let's just say something he said was sexually-related to hair and being with a woman. Immediately, I was turned off. I wasn't even interested in the first place, but I am appreciative of polite compliments I get - hence, why I thanked him. Now, this message was ridiculous and uncalled for.

I was wondering if he knew just what kind of effect he was making with such a rude comment. Did he think I would see that he is desirable to women? What was it about saying that some woman he was with had better hair than me, after he had already complimented me on my hair?!

I never asked him his opinion on my hair to begin with! How do I get a compliment and then get put down? I can see that some guys would go on to do this, if I simply deleted their nice message. But this guy had no reason to be 'mean', considering I DID thank him!

Of course I deleted his rude message to me. Then the most bizarre thing happened...He writes yet another message and this time says that he does like my hair though. I was thinking what the?!? This guy has no clue! All I could think was how many times has he done this before? Perhaps not the exact same scenario, but going about meeting women in this kind of way.

I even had to share my little incident with a few other guys 'cause I was taken aback. I mean sometimes I get some odd messages, but this one was something else. I was hoping that he CHOSE to sabotage himself, 'cause I couldn't comprehend that he could just be THAT clueless.

Speaking of an odd first online dating message - That same day a guy asked me if he could take me to his psychology class for show and tell. When I inquired as to what he meant by that, the only answer he had was that he was trying to be different! Yes, VERY different.

I'm confused. I don't get the humor in it.

Read. Delete.

Hey guys, don't worry if you've written some stuff before like these guys did, in your first messages to women - I am here to the rescue! I am telling you OUT LOUD what women think about you on online dating, but will NOT tell you! :)

Check out this cool guide on Internet dating tips and advice for men -
includes samples of profiles & emails used to meet beautiful women online!

-xo Kat

Hey guys! Are you tired of the frustration that comes with messaging girls on online dating sites and receiving very little to no responses?! Ever wondered what it would be like to have your in-box flooded with messages from girls that are eager to get to know you?! If you answered yes, then you are in luck!

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And the best part is, you can pick up girls all day and night while sitting in your living room in your underwear! LOL!:)

Internet Pimpin' will give you an advantage over 90 percent of the guys on all internet dating sites! Your in-box will be flooded with messages from girls wanting to get to know you!

Writing An Online Dating Profile

2010-03-13T02:49:00.000-08:00

Writing An Online Dating Profile

Many people have questions on exactly what writing an online dating profile entails.

First impressions are important in the real world as they are online, and your profile with pictures is a HUGE window into who you are as a person.

Don't skimp out on the opportunity to meet some great women, by not taking the time to consider what goes in an awesome online dating profile.

I will be covering a lot more in my blog here, on what writing an effective online dating profile should look like. So stay tuned!

-xo Kat

Chemistry and Numbers is the definitive guide to Online Dating and Relationship sites.

This book reviews some of the most popular and successful online dating sites, helping you make an informed decision.

A step by step, fully illustrated guide on signing up to making the first impression.

Your True Love Is Just A Click Away!

You are living in California, and your soul mate lives in Nebraska. Do you believe that you'll meet them at the corner bar?

The dating scene is changing every day, and online dating websites have opened up singles to a whole new world of dating opportunities. Never before has true love been found from around the corner to half a world away!

As you are reading this, millions of eligible men and women are online looking for their Mr. or Mrs. Right, but with so many online dating sites and choices, it can be very hard to find the right one for you.

Some of the 20 sites that are reviewed and shown with Step by Step Picture Instructions include:

Match - EHarmony - True - Chemistry - American Singles - Lava Life - Craigslist and more

Get Her Love Back Now

2010-03-09T10:56:00.000-08:00

Get Her Love Back Now

I love what I do - helping men succeed in their dating and relationship love life!

I've worked hard on bringing you Online Dating Help For Men Blog and now I've worked hard to bring you help on How To Get UR Girl Back.

I know how awesome it can be to find that person you just adore, and I also know how awful it is to have them lose interest - or worst, get away!

With love, comes heartache. The two go hand-in-hand, like ice and water or heat and sun. You get my point. ;)

It's almost inevitable that sometimes, hopefully not too often, we love and we hurt.

Whether you are dating, in a relationship, or even married - broken love can take quite the emotional toll.

Let me help you with the challenge that a relationship break-down can take on you, whether it's someone you fell for online or offline.

Here is the map for navigating the challenge of getting back that person you love!

Fix your relationship or get her love back now...before it's too late!

Check out my new site: How To Get UR Girl Back

I am most pleased to bring you this excellent site covering useful information, tips, advice, and top ebook guides to help you get your ex back.

Thanks for your commitment and inspiration to finding love online and keeping it!

-xo Kat

Are you going crazy without her? Here's a step-by-step plan that makes her realize what she’s lost and that you're the only guy for her -- in 30 days or less, guaranteed!

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You Still Love Her...
But All She Says Is "I Need Time"...

Look, it's normal for it to be tough what you’re going through. You feel like your woman is slipping away. You're confused. You're depressed. You feel like you're crushed under tons and tons of boulders.

Getting dumped by the woman of your life is literally just as painful as getting punched in the gut. (Scientists found that having a broken heart affects the exact same pain receptors in your brain as when you're undergoing physical trauma.)

And getting her back is more wonderful than you could ever imagine.

The system you’re about to discover has been thoroughly field-tested, so I can promise you it will work for you. It’s based on innate and uncontrollable instincts in your ex-girlfriend, which is why this plan is the closest thing to foolproof you’ll ever find in this world.

Easy To Use, But Reality Is NOT Like Some Movie.

When you regain your woman’s love and affection, it’s not going to be by continuing to be a beta male who constantly kisses her ass. Nor is it going to be by calling her and texting her 18 times a day. (That may work in films, but in real life it just drives her away.)

This powerful material is only for you if you’re fed up with the loneliness and ready to drop your ego and get serious about getting your woman back into your life.

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I’d like you to imagine for a second that your ex-girlfriend calls you. She says, “Sorry about what’s been happening lately. I think about you night and day and want you back.”

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Tips For Dating Online

2010-03-06T14:37:00.000-08:00

Tips For Dating Online

Tips For Dating Online

Hey Guys,

Looking for tips for dating online? Then bookmark my little 'ole blog here to continue getting the latest info., tips, and advice to successfully date women from the Internet.

We probably all know of someone by now that has looked to the Internet to meet someone, and you may have even heard of great long-term relationships coming out of it.

There isn't nearly as much stigma for looking to the Internet for love, as there was even just several years ago!

I was at a wedding a couple of years back already, in which the couple met on LavaLife. She is a high school teacher and he works in finance. They are both attractive, nice and successful.

Did they need to go online to find love? Nope. But did they have to go online to find each other? Definitely. :)

If you are new to the whole meeting women over the computer concept, you have more to gain than to lose.

Try online dating!

Until next time.

-xo Kat

Chances are, you've heard about Internet dating from a friend, or an online banner ad has caught your eye.

If you've given online dating a passing consideration, you may have some fears from all those graphic horror stories that jar your senses – and your sensibilities. Or you may think that meeting people via the Internet is only for the disenfranchised or socially unskilled.

From their own experiences, 20 million people can tell you otherwise. Online Dating For Dummies will get you off the fence and on the Internet dating path – with the skill of a seasoned pro. Like your best friend, this fun reference will give you the straight scoop on:

-Gearing up with the right computer hardware

-Overcoming preconceived notions of who is online

-Talking the online lingo

-Enjoying conversation in chat rooms

-Considering date site options

-Establishing your screen identity

-Facing the consequences of not posting a photo

Internet dating is growing at double-digit rates every year, while other forms of finding a connection are flat or falling off. Internet dating, although far from perfect, is becoming the most effective and efficient method of getting introduced to a large number of available singles.

Online Dating For Dummies shows you how to get your feet wet and how to dive in, making informed choices and exercising good judgment as you:

-Sign up for a trial run on a dating site

-Try to describe yourself for your personal profile

-Initiate your first e-mail contact

-Make your first in-person meeting memorable

-Identify frauds and players

-Figure out what not to do if you really want to meet someone

Jumping into online dating with no preparation at all is possible – but not practical. If you follow the techniques in this friendly guide, your odds of meeting great potential matches will greatly improve, and you'll have far more fun in the process.

Dating Online Emails - Don't Do This!

2010-02-16T13:36:00.000-08:00

Dating Online Emails - Don't Do This!

Dating Online Emails - Don't Do This!

Hey guys,

Promise me, you'll never do this with your dating online emails! I can't tell you how annoyed I am when *this happens* and it happens all too regularly. It's such a crucial mistake - One where you lose a lot of women this way.

It's seemingly becoming all too common on dating online sites. I noticed such a difference now from even a couple of years ago. The reason guys are doing this is because it "works". Kind of, sort of. Okay, maybe not really.

Promise me something...

You won't do this with your dating online email any longer. If you have been doing this up until now, I totally forgive you! That's what I'm here for - to help you attract women online! So, please, please don't feel like you screwed-up. Just think, if you didn't find this out from me now, who knows how many more messages it would have taken you to figure it out!

It's the copy-and-paste message epidemic that's going around. It's reaching critical mass. Not only are guys using the template approach, they are becoming much more sneaky with it. Pretending to personalize it when they're really not.

The copy-and-paste, lazy-man approach may work for you, but then when that time is right and there's that perfect '10' that you want to connect with....ya, let's just say, you don't want to mess that one up.

Think about how special (or not) I feel to get an email that is obviously a-one-size-fits-all message. There's me with my looong profile and I get a half-a$$ message. It doesn't even count as an email at all. It's frankly spam.

It gets worst. The template message is so short that there isn't even any punctuation in it! ;)~ Not only that, it's asking me ('cause clearly the guy is not!) to go for coffee.

Funny, I think, didn't it JUST say on my profile that I've NEVER had a coffee in my life, so we probably wouldn't do that for a first date!

Well, if spammy-message-man bothered to read my profile and knew at least basic English, he wouldn't be blushing this very instant. He also wouldn't have received a "direct" message from me stating what I just said here.

But it gets worse, yes, A LOT worse.

I get a message back, with complete disregard for my pointing out that my profile wasn't read, asking me something irrelevant - I Read Delete.

I then, believe it or not, had to give my same response to another guy who did the same thing!! Yes, he asked me out for coffee when I said I've never had coffee in my life on my profile! (I know what a few of you smart-a$$ ones are thinking - maybe he just meant a drink, a juice, a chat, a kumbaya dance, whatever - but nope. I can read between the lines, and this was easy 'cause there weren't any! And frankly, I know what's up. Hey, I created this blog for you, didn't I? ;)

This is the mistake I don't want you to make! Please save other women the pain I went through with these dating online emails.

If you are writing her, clearly you want a response back! Well, stop losing the ladies over a lame copy-and-paste message and write a great online dating message.

Personalize it!

It shows you care. It shows respect. Heck, it makes you look like you give two-cents, even if you only give one, or none.

If anything, it's worth doing, if just so you don't look like a fool.

So....READ the profile. :)

AND Get Online Dating Profile Help - when and if you need it!

-xo Kat

Studies predicted that more than 20 million people would visit at least one online dating service a month in 2008.

Internet dating has several advantages, among them the ability to discover everything about a potential partner before ever meeting them. You can learn their age, religious affiliations, education, expectations, interests, hobbies, and so on.

Internet dating allows you to chat online and get to know someone before meeting them. There is also the ability to meet people on a varied schedule; you do not have to meet them face-to-face right away.

Other advantages include protection of your personal identity, the exchange of photos, the ability to be yourself, less cost, and the ability to search by sexual or ethnic preference, all of which will increase the chances of finding that special someone.

Aside from the many advantages, online dating has disadvantages as well. For example, you could be starting an online relationship with someone who, in actuality, does not look like they do in their photos or their personality is not as they described, it might have to be a long distance relationship, or they have a hidden criminal agenda.

This is why you need the assistance of this groundbreaking new book that covers it all, allowing you to find the right partner and make your online dates safe and secure.

The book features many available online dating services, such as PerfectMatch, which employs a scientific method to locate matches. eHarmony has a compatibility system that only pairs you with compatible singles. Yahoo Personals helps you choose from thousands of members to find singles in your area. True.com is likely the only dating site that checks new members for criminal activity and marriage history. Match.com guarantees you will meet someone special within six months or they will extend your membership by six months at no cost to you.

Also detailed are AmericanSingles.com, FriendFinder.com, Metrodate.com, Lavalife.com, Date.com, JDate.com, Great Expectations at GE-Dating.com and Chemistry.com.

Also included are true stories from couples and singles who have been through the online dating process and have found it either worked or didn't work for them. Other social networking sites, such as MySpace.com, are also touched upon.

Olympics Dating

2010-02-12T14:17:00.000-08:00

Olympics Dating

Wow, the conundrum of what is known as the Olympic Games has finally arrived to Vancouver, BC, Canada!

The first Olympic Games were held in the summer of 1896 with both winter and summer games, until it was decided that perhaps the winter sports were best left for the well,...winter. Thus, the first Winter Olympic games were held in France, in 1924.

What started for the Olympic Winter Games with 258 athletes competing from 16 countries in 16 events has now risen to an astounding 2,500 athletes from 80 countries in 15 events. There is a new event, within freestyle skiing that is set to begin for 2010, called Ski Cross.

I'm not sure if it was the event of Military Patrol skiing that moved into the Biathlon realm that has the events from 16 down to 15. If you know, let me know!: )

What's interesting to note is that a sport must be widely practiced in at least 25 countries on 3 continents for it to get inclusion into the Winter Olympic Games!

The Paralympic Games began after the 2nd World War to get English soldiers in wheelchairs moving again. Officially, the first Paralympic Games started in 1960 and now encompass 600 athletes competing in 5 sports for 64 separate medal events.

The Vancouver Organizing Committee for the 2010 Olympic and Paralympic Winter Games (VANOC) was established on September 30, 2003, since Vancouver was selected on July 2, 2003 to be the Host City of the 2010 Winter Games.

Canada also played host in the 1976 Summer Games in Montreal, Quebec. But, it has been 22 years since Canada was a Host City for the Olympics in Calgary, Alberta.

It's Our Turn Again - GO CANADA!

-xo Kat

What a memorable experience it is to be dating in Vancouver, during the 2010 Winter Olympics!

Together with the highs and lows of the Games themselves, this illustrated chronicle includes the recreation of the Olympic Games by Pierre de Coubertin and the often tempestuous and controversial fortunes of the governing body—including three successive boycotts and the Salt Lake City scandal of 1998.

It also tells the story of the historic competitors—from Spyridon Louis (the inaugural Marathon winner) and such heroes as Jim Thorpe, Paavo Nurmi, Sonja Heine, Jesse Owens, Greg Louganis, and Carl Lewis, to more recent medal winners, including Steve Redgrave and Kathy Freeman.

The twin evolutions of the International Olympic Committee (IOC) and the world's greatest sports festival unfold in alternate chapters, each of which begins with a personal reminiscence by either a famous champion or a notable IOC figure.

Detailed background is provided on the many crises—the Nazi Games of 1936, the massacre at Mexico City in 1968, the Israeli slaughter by terrorists in 1972, the boycotts, the new commercialism from 1984 onwards, the advent of professionals from 1988, and the ongoing threat of drug abuse.

Included is how the credibility of the Games and of the IOC was rescued by the glory of Sydney 2000, and how the sporting world anticipated the Games' return in 2004 to the country of their ancient origins.

Valentines Day Date Ideas

2010-02-10T01:20:00.000-08:00

Valentines Day Date Ideas

It's only 4 more days until Valentine's Day. But who's counting?

Traditionally, it seems like a bigger deal for the ladies to be out with someone special on this romanticized day of the year. However, you can't say, as a guy, that it isn't nice being with a woman on Valentines as well.

I'm sure you would agree that you would rather be around femininity than a sweaty dude. You'd probably want to be around perfume than have to smell your own cologne.

I'm not here to convince anyone, male or female. What I am here to tell you is that all hope is not lost if you don't already have plans for this Sunday!

Don't worry about looking like a fool by asking a girl out online at the 'last minute'. As long as you don't come across as desperate, or feeling sorry for yourself, she'll probably take you up on your offer!

Like yourself, she would rather have last minute plans than no plan at all.

Put no pressure on it or no expectations and surely, you both will have a good time.

You don't exactly have to spend time with someone the actual day of V-Day. Perhaps, there is more going on on Saturday, the day before. Maybe better Valentines day date ideas to be had.

Maybe it's tough enough for you to meet someone from the Internet on a 'regular' day, let alone on Valentine's Day.

But, it's only one day of the year.

You still have another 364 more to impress! ;)

-xo Kat

Welcome To Online Dating Help For Men Blog

2010-02-09T11:52:00.000-08:00

Online Dating Help For Men Blog

Online Dating Help For Men

Welcome to my Online Dating Help For Men Blog in which I seek to help men with dating online. I provide the best in online dating help for men from a woman. :) Stay a while whether you are old-school to dating online or haven’t even tried it yet.

Having gone from a complete refusal to meeting somebody over the Internet, to writing and re-writing an online profile, to going on many dates with virtual strangers, to finding a long-term relationship…I do believe that dating online is a great avenue for narrowing down your search for dating and relationships.

So-called success with online dating didn’t come easy. I had to go through many of my own trials and tribulations. For instance, what was the person contacting me REALLY wanting? Are those pictures recent? Are they being sarcastic? Are they going to think I look like my pics, when they see me in person? Are they going to be the same way in person as they were online?

It was sooo different going dating online than it was for me to simply smile away in the bar chatting with my girlfriends. When I’m out it’s never my style to go up to men. I don’t even make eye-contact. That’s just me and that’s how I’ve always been.

So now that I’m online, the guys can’t SEE me ’cause I have no picture up. I contact them. But then this got me wondering if that’s what they want. I know they would prefer to contact me first, but how can they sift through all those pictures and find my picture-less profile.

I contacted guys and what did I know – It worked! Now you may think I’m being silly or playing games. Neither of those. I’m very genuine. All it is is that I’m a bit old-fashioned.

But eventually when I became more comfortable dating online and was getting ‘used to it’, I put my picture up. Then I put more up. What I did notice this time around though is that when I contacted the guys FIRST, I did NOT receive the same warm and happy replies like I did when they didn’t have a picture of me.

Okay, so now I was confused.

I wasn’t about to give up though. The whole experience of dating online was so NEW and I was enjoying this new challenge.

I just knew that I needed to be honest with myself, with who I AM. I decided just to step back a little and do what works for me.

I felt most comfortable having the guys find me ‘first’ and message me ‘first’. This worked more for my personality-type anyway.

However, I did have to be enticing with my user name, headline, profile and pictures, while at the same time being TRUE to who it is I was and how I wanted to portray myself.

As long as I was being honest with myself with what I was LOOKING for with dating online and WHO I wanted to meet, I knew that dating online would be another fun experience for me.

And it was...and is! :)

-xo Kat

This book focuses on online relationships and specifically cyber-flirting; the authors examine how flirting offline can be transferred to an Internet setting, through their own empirical and theoretical research. The authors draw from psychoanalytic theory to provide a better understanding of cyber-flirting, online dating, and relationships on the Internet.

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Welcome To Online Dating Help For Men Blog

Did you know that most of the women that you think would never date or have sex with YOU, are often times lonely (yes, even the most gorgeous ones), and actually would if you knew what to say to them